There's definitely a balance when you are in a relationship to when you let things slide off your back and when you should stand up for yourself (I guess this balance applies to life in general). I was a nice guy once, I used to just ignore all the bad things and let them slide by. Man, it makes you feel like a weenie. There's something liberating in just letting out your frustrations verbally or physically (as long as its not your girlfriend, wife, etc)..
I found this post on raigslist written by an angry girlfriend (not mine), its actually full of good stuff...
"So for the nice guys out there, my advice is this: It's great that you're nice (to an extent), but have some backbone. Don't be a spine donor all your life. When your girl is out of line, say something. Don't let her walk all over you. Occasionally, be a "bad" boy (being bad doesn't translate to abusive or criminal). Say "No" to her sometimes. Raise your voice and be heard. Say something dirty/sexy to her occasionally. Drink a few too many beers and piss out in public. Smack her ass. Don't ever use the word NICE to describe things, especially sex (okay, that may be a personal pet peeve). Have an interest in at LEAST one sport (or pretend to). Drive 5-10 miles over the speed limit once in awhile. Run an old lady off the road just for kicks (yeah, I'm kidding about this one... just ride her bumper for a few miles). Be aggressive during sex. Take off those damn white socks and Jesus sandals. Grow a goatee for a few weeks. Shave your balls. Stray from your routine and shake things up.
BE A MAN FOR GOD'S SAKE... and the women will fall at your feet."
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